Becoming - Michelle Obama

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I read the book ' Becoming' by Michelle Obama and watched Oprah Winfrey's interview of Michelle Obama.
These are some takeaways for us- women.

1. Never depend on your spouse to make you happy. Your happiness is your responsibility. Instead of focusing on what he's not doing, let's focus on how to carve our own niche and lead a purposeful life. Don't wait for the arrival of Man of house to begin your life or your children's life.

2. Walk your own walk. Don't compare your walk with others lest we cannot enjoy our own walk.

3. The best thing about your body is it's healthy. We can wake up from our bed and do all functions effectively. Don't be too judgemental about your body.

4. Never let a bully's insults or aggression get to you personally. It's not about you, but them that they bully. When they go low, we go high.

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